Soul Mates, Twin Flames and other Flames… for Evolving Souls.

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“Few recognize the enormous power of relationship as a vehicle for mutual healing— physical, emotional and spiritual. Or the power of the “true heart” to awaken us from the emotional trance that relationships sometimes induce. Or the possibilities of seeing our beloved as “the Beloved.” Levine, Stephen; Levine, Ondrea (2010-06-05). Embracing the Beloved: Relationship as a Path of Awakening . Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group.

Soul Retrieval… when love takes you to the depths of pain, risking being caught within the pain… Healing is hard to do… we go into pain we might otherwise never enter… But…

 

How deep is your love?

Have you heard about the family tragedies?
Have you heard about the broken hearts?
Have you heard about the broken dreams?
Have you heard about the emotional pain?
Have you heard about the physical pain?
Have you heard about the psychical pain?
Have you heard about the spiritual pain?
Have you felt that pain your heard about?
Have you cried with about pain together?
Have you shared your pain about the pain?

How deep is your love?

Are you willing to go into your lover’s dreams?
Are you willing to go into your lover’s nightmare?
Are you willing to face the her demons with her?
Are you willing to face the truth of her angels?
How deep is your love?

What is Soul Retrieval?

Soul Retrieval is the ability to enter a state of trance and transfer one’s conscious awareness to the soul memory of another person or animal. This prehistoric practice requires the knowledge given by spirit guides throughout the evolution of human conscious awareness.

An example of a Soul Retrieval

A female, age about fifty, client lays on a message table, I enter a state of trance. Once in trance, I am in a bathroom watching a male, age around thirty, wrapped in a towel and brushing his teeth. He is somewhat chubby, somewhat short black hair and looks like he is somewhat Italian. I come out of trance, discuss everything I saw, that the client immediately recognized the man and scene as being her husband at the time and place they were married. This simple recognition triggers her memories to release trauma about that relationship. Releasing that trauma about the relationship allows the client to process on her own–no counseling.

Another client who was a nurse, roughly fifty years old, I describe an umbilical chord to her. I see her as a twin birthed baby. That makes no sense to her. About a year or so later, a woman comes to me at an event where I am speaking as a presenter. She asks me, “Do you recognize me?” I am usually very good with faces since memory work is required to do psychic work. I cannot place her. She explains to me that after the healing, she discovered that she did have a twin at birth. She began losing over 50 pounds without dieting.

I could go on and on but chose very simple examples. I brought up the movie What Dreams May Come because that is an example of Soul Retrieval after a loved one dies. I highly recommend the movie.

In part, when we enter a one to one relationship with a partner, we are engaging in a soul merging process which has some elements of Soul Retrieval naturally embedded into the soul mate relationship. The elements of memories surfacing, painful and non-painful, empathy, sympathy, and hopefully deep core emotional bonding and communication. Those basic elements.

Other elements of Soul Retrieval inside of relationship is the psychic bonding such as mutual dreaming, extra-sensory communications such as telepathy, seeing visions and hearing voices of a loved one in trouble, or cheating and lying.

Soul Retrieval is the most ancient and natural form of the healing arts. Every indigenous peoples on the planet performed Soul Retrieval as it is the most innate psychic ability which we possess as humans–the ability to enter our dreams with our loved ones and seek out their soul memories to retrieve lost, fragmented and traumatized memories to the peace and light.

What Dreams May Come is an example of Soul Retrieval. Robin Williams plays the grieving husband and father who loses his family in a traumatic car accident. I highly recommend watching this film more than a few times.

Plot: Robin Williams’s character’ family dies in a tragic car accident. While grieving, Williams places his focus on a painting that his wife had been working on before her death. His memories begin to emerge, reliving important memories between him and his wife, and kids. While contemplating the incomplete art piece, a large oil painting, Williams finds himself entering the painting itself. Inside the dream of being in the painting, Williams is met by a familiar face. That familiar face takes him on a tour. During the tour of dreaming within the painting, the painted world becomes more real vs. imaginary. As the dream becomes more real, Williams begins to have memories of his wife and kids. As the memories unfold, the tour guide takes him to a realm where his wife is stuck in misery, a personal hell realm. Williams reconnects with his wife, aids her escape from eternal misery and is guided by the tour guide to take her to the light of heaven where he meets angels and discovers his spiritual core being.
That is what happens when:

A.) One enters into a trance or dream state
B.) While in trance or dream state meets spirit guides
C.) One or more spirit guides give the sojourner a tour
D.) Spirit guide(s) guide person to a loved one
E.) The loved one communicates with the sojourner
F.) The messages from the loved one are retrieved
G.) Sojourner returns from trance/dream with messages
H.) The message unlocks hidden/secret healing details
I.) The hidden secrets reveal healing to release fear, anxiety
J.) The physical and emotional body respond with pain
K.) When the pain is released, the body is triggered to heal
L.) The genetic DNA/RNA automatically release healing processes
M.) Unless loved one is deceased they will be brought to the light

These are our innate impulses from our own soul core beings. Over time, we learned to ignore these impulses through indoctrination of religion, giving our natural power to a central authority figure. In my tribal origins, the children are initiated at the age of two years old to meet with the ancestral spirit guides. Spirit guide training is processed throughout childhood in a fun and imaginative format. Children are given strict codes of conduct and yet given a free reign of imagination within those guide lines. This orientation exists within existing indigenous peoples on the planet yet are becoming extinct which is why I am writing this for you.

Applications:

1) Family
2) Loved Ones
3) Soul mates

Soul mate relationships will trigger the deepest core memories of the soul. Partnering up with a soul mate will cause the dreaming memories to merge whether either one or both partners are aware of this process. If one or both partners are unaware, the triggers will release pain and suffering to degrees that one and eventually both partners will be aggravated and irritated and intimacy will become a major problem, eventually leading to abuse of self or the beloved partner. In other words, one or both partners may retreat by alcohol or become verbally and physically violent. At that stage, both partners are battling for their own survival issues.

If only one partner is able to enter into dreaming state with the other partner, there is chance that the relationship may be retrievable. Ethically, this also requires intimacy between partners and doing a Soul Retrieval against the will of the soul mate is a transgression, a violation of spiritual freedom of will. Although when it occurs naturally, one partner may begin to experience dreaming with the other partner and be led to understand deeper metaphorical memory based information. In order for the healing to unfold, learning how to share the dream information becomes necessary. This sharing leads to deeper intimacy and requires both partners to become aware of the vulnerability of both partners as they enter into deep stages of soul growth. When this level is reached, the internal guidance of the mutual partnership begin to merge.

This merging process, all soul mates feel at some point and are aware of how it feels. However, the deeper the merging, the more each partner will feel shifts in vulnerability and feel as if each is losing her sense of being a self to the relationship. That is when there are trust issues which come up as each partner must sacrifice a certain amount of guarding the sense of being a separate self. A committed relationship will go through stages of learning how to trust each other by sharing deeper layers of intimacy. Accepting the psychic bonding, releasing fears of loss such as in fear the partner will become sick or wounded and die will be a constant process of letting go to the life and death processing of being soul in a human body–basically the meaning of the vows of marriage, through sickness and in health, until death do us part. When one of the partners parts, there will be a grieving process which also opens the living soul mate to experience the transition of the deceased soul mate evolve back the spirit realms. If both soul mates have evolved, there will be a time period which is opened for soul mates to be able to communicate between the physical and non-physical. This is a natural healing process of grieving to give the living soul mate the will to live with the knowledge of the spiritual realms in memory.

Again, What Dreams May Come is a good depiction of the stages of Soul Retrieval. Watch it more than once, more than a few times if you can or must. You can get the feel for the transitions of conscious awareness so that they become more clear to your mind.

Best Wishes,
Jedhi

“It is not for the concept, but for the experience, that we use the term “the Beloved.” The experience of this enormity we falteringly label “divine” is unconditioned love. Absolute openness, unbounded mercy and compassion. We use this concept, not to name the unnameable vastness of being— our greatest joy— but to acknowledge and claim as our birthright the wonders and healings within.
Levine, Stephen; Levine, Ondrea (2010-06-05). Embracing the Beloved: Relationship as a Path of Awakening (pp. 6-7). Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group.

Although it seems that everyone needs and wants to be loved, it also seems that accepting love is the most difficult feeling to accept. In the late nineties, I enjoyed To Love and Be Loved by Stephen and Ondrea Levine. This was the most beautiful recording of a workshop about Love. The raw emotional reverberation between Stephen and Ondrea is beyond amazing. The depth of awareness and understanding between these two souls was enlightening to say the least. To understand love, one must open one’s heart to the core of fear and desire. I highly recommend their addition to the knowledge of love. Many lovers seek Rumi for inspiration. Rumi’s inspiration on the spiritual path of love has been a poetic work of transcendence of self, being, being Love, being Source. And, yet, the Gods and Goddesses of Love are ancient mythos within our human psyche. The roots of poetry as a path of knowledge derives from the path of Love. Poetry evolved from song–prayers, love stories and storytelling. We can say, all paths lead to Love. But to be loved, that is the quest to conquer our greatest fear.

Why do we fear love? Love opens our heart to our truth, our fear of our truth, our fear of being told we are not lovable, our fear of not being loved, our fear of not being good, not being accepted, not being what we think or feel. Love opens us to being vulnerable. We are vulnerable to every nuance of feeling, sensing the world. Our world is what we feel and think until we are loved. Then, our world no longer revolves around our own sense of self. Now, the world revolved around what we hear, see, feel, sense from the lover.

This sense of being loved is like being a new born infant again. As an infant, we rely in our caregivers, our mother, father, grandparents, aunts, uncles and all those who pay attention to our needs as we are learning to eat, potty, talk and walk on our own. This sense of vulnerability, we feel again when we are in Love. It is all the memories of being an infant, baby, toddler, child, young adult and then an adult that we must face again when we feel vulnerable to the depths of love.

My Cherokee Great Aunt used to say that we are not adults until we reach thirty years of age. In our twenties, we are learning to let go of being children. We are learning how to be adults. We are finally learning this as we enter our thirties. It is in this transition that we have experienced most of the formation of our adult life. And, we have taken account of our childhood as we grow in comparing and contrasting our experiences between childhood and adulthood, friendships and lovers, lovers and partners. Through those experiences, we gain more memories. More memories are more insights of both good and bad, positive and negative experiences. As we gain those experiences, we are making decisions based on weighing those experiences.

When we are in love, now we have to weigh our experiences with the beloved. Which experiences will be important to share? Which will be ones we keep to ourselves? Which ones will be reveal when we can no longer keep them to ourselves? Which ones explain the way we feel? Which ones do we need to discuss to feel understood? Which ones will we try to keep forever? Which ones will not be kept inside our hearts forever? The choices we make over and over, on a daily basis leads us through a maze of decisions based on our fear of love.

How do we get through the maze of choices and decisions about discussing our truths with the beloved? The heart holds the keys to unlock the fear of the soul. All those things we hold within our soul, our heart knows when we can tell them and when we cannot. Our heart is at the core of our being, our Life Source. Our heart feels open or closed, expanded or contracted. For some, the heart feels always closed. Others, the heart feels always open. For many the heart opens and closes. The goal is be able open the heart to remain open without fear. That is the only way we can face the beloved and the world.

Much, much more can be said and will be said by many, many people about the heart. The lessons of the heart are endless. All the ways we feel and express emotions, all the memories, fears, doubt and pain will teach us to pay attention and focus on our hearts, our truths. In our truths, we learn to trust our heart. In our heart, we learn to trust others. We learn to accept love in all forms. We learn to feel the love of the beloved. Our hearts become the scale which weighs our fears, doubts and pain against the feather likened to the Ancient Egyptian Hieroglyphs. Our hearts are our prayers to Source. Our hearts are our songs, our poetry, expressing our love.

Love is endless. To be loved is divine.

Namaste
Jedhi